COURTSHIP (4)

CHERISH & PECULIAR presents you the 4th edition of the series- COURTSHIP...

As I did my laundry on the 2nd Saturday morning a nice thought flows within me on the concept of COURTSHIP.

Listen and sit tight as I take you through the tour this hour...

COURTSHIP a concept meant to chisel out and blend in some vital issues to partners involve...

Its a period of:

BREAKING DOWN,
MOLDING,
CORRECTING,
ADMITTING,
ADHERING,
ASCERTAINING,
ACCEPTING,
REJECTING,
TEACHING,
BLENDING,
CHISELING,
RESPECTING,
ADJUSTING,
PLANNING,
CHANGING,
KNOWING,
ASKING,
FINDING,
PROJECTING,
SAYING,
MOVING,
ABSTAINING,
SUBMITTING,
DEFINING,
DETECTING,
UNDERSTANDING,
PERMITTING,
PRESERVING,
CONSERVING,
BALANCING,
ENDURING,
EARNING,
YAWNING,
YEARNING,
ZOOMING...

And many other good concept you can add to build the list...

Yours lovely.
AYO STEVE.
President.
CHERISH & PECULIAR...
Its all about LOVE & YOU.
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COURTSHIP (3)

As continuation to the serial message on our LUV & RELATIONSHIP SERIES today, we are maintaining the focus on COURTSHIP (III)...

With the trends of event this week we are on the COURTSHIP TRACK we shall proceed in line of it for more exposition today...

Your COURTSHIP should not be a time of battering, assault, nagging, insult, abuse among others.

Listen! If that person loves you he/she shouldn't inflict pains on you knowingly...

I'm not in support of d worldly claim that: LOVE IS PAIN, WICKED or WRONG.
If this happens it is as a result of our attitude and character...

Please let's leave LOVE and treat the scores with ourselves...

Many run from COURTSHIP as a result of their inability to plan ahead, lost of concentration to something else during this period and lack of focus as a matter of fact...

Selfishness, Greed, Insatiable desire, Unrealistic Expectations, Covetousness, Carelessness, e.t.c. plays an active role in abuse of this concept...

Its certain if we are to be out-rightly free from this menace we must go back to the BEGINNING because IT WAS NOT SO FROM THE ONSET...

My question goes thus...
ARE WE READY FOR AMENDMENT?
So let's return to the BASICS...

Thanks for reading...

Yours lovely.
AYO STEVE.President.
CHERISH & PECULIAR...
Its all bout LUV & YOU.
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COURTSHIP (2)

Its a Cool Day...

Still on our LUV & RELATIONSHIP ISSUE, the focus remains COURTSHIP (II)...

We have gone through the first series of the topic with an exposition on its definition with the aid of C.O.U.R.T.S.H.I.P. acronym...

Now I will be a bit raw and factual...

Courtship should not be the time to wine and dine only...
It should not be a time to take and drop...
Or a period of chop and go...
Neither the time to drain or invest with what you have shabbily gathered...

No wonder many scream at relationship when they are mature to get involve but the fear of the past coupled with the known and unknown datum seize their heart to move ahead...

Remember you are addressed the way you dress...Most people in relationship present themselves as whore, cheaters, unstable, unrealistic and irrational- sure that is how they will be treated...

Over time SEX has been a criteria that destroys COURTSHIP yet most youth- spinsters and bachelor enjoy this illegal act.
It becomes illegal in as much as you aren't married and you are venturing into or tasting it.
Those that do it are termed thief, covetous, selfish...
Why should you ruin that lady when you definitely know you are not going too far with her.
The fact that you will even go far with her does not mean you are licensed to jump on her at the urge of your insatiable libido...

The sad news is the passion of love burning or built in rush will disappear when the outcome of your action comes up few weeks after and she says I'M PREGNANT.

What comes out is: PREG! What? For who?
See question...
Hmmmmm...
(Men and dramatic art... Women and script suspense displayed.)
(soliloquy by me)...
The next thing or line of actions are as follows:
Male: I'm not ready for this now.
Female: What next?
Male: ABORTION.
Female: Never, I don't want to die.
Male: You will not die and if you insist you are on your own...
 
Curtain drawn.
Guy leaves and the lady sobs...

Please can you help me tell her its not time to cry because she has placed her worth/pearl so cheap before the swine & that is as a result of her not placing value on herself...

I, Ayo Steve says COURTSHIP is a period of placing VALUE on yourself.

Men are VALUERS they survey all around to take measures of VALUABLES and weighing them on a scale to know their worth.
Please don't depreciate yourself by placing less value on yourself in the name of love.
This same love runs out or wash away when the deed has been done...
Its high time we left the abuse of this concept for those yet to get into it in the name of others err and shortcomings.
Some of them have been warned yet they fall victim of this menace yet blaming love...

In conclusion, COURTSHIP is a period to TALK, SPEAK, COMMUNE, DISCERN, PLAN, UNDERSTAND, SHARPEN, ACT REAL, OPEN UP, KNOW BETTER, CONTROL among others...

I RISE...
With these few points I can tell you that if there will be COURTSHIP (III) it will be loaded soon...

AYO STEVE.President.
CHERISH & PECULIAR...
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COURTSHIP (1)

On our LOVE and RELATIONSHIP ISSUE today, the focus is COURTSHIP (I)...

A great lesson learnt and shared on 3rd March 2013 (SUNDAY).
Its paramount we learn from it as well.

Short or Long Courtship:
SHINE YOUR EYES...

Long or short Courtship does not guaranty a safe trip to Marriage.
How sensitive you are matters.
Your alertness plays a vital role in this course...
Parties are to discern things during this stage else they make fun or mockery of the concept...
A month Courtship with 31 days alertness is better than 4 yrs Courtship with or without 2 days sensitivity...

After digesting this write up you can define Courtship and have the knowledge before leaping into it or before you check out of it for those in it now...
I will further explain my write up with an acronym as you know I fall in love with this logic for better digest of readers.

C.O.U.R.T.S.H.I.P.

C- CLEAR.
Be clear. Clear cogent issues that can make you stumble...

O- OPENNESS.
Be open to each other. The issue hidden when open in future can lead to break at last. So why do you hide them in the first instance?...

U- UNDERSTANDING.
You must understand each other to a reasonable level...

R- REASONABLE.
Its necessary to be reasonable with your partner else you expect much or deny the fact that he/she is human. We have our past, but the ability to pass through them pushes us to the bright future...

T- TEACHABLE.
Correction must b available during this period. So take it with all joy...

S- SUBMISSIVE.
Your submissiveness doesn't means stupidity rather shows that you value the relationship in all areas...

H- HELPING.
Strive always to help out your partner. Be fair to each other...

I- INTERESTING.
Make this period interesting to each other not with SEX, ROMANCE, KISSES among others but with nice discussions, expositions, plans for the future, hopes for tomorrow, appreciating each others companion.

P- PEACEFUL.
Be calm, peaceful, gentle, mild. Don't be a harsh, wicked, aggressive partner...

An additional point to the above mentioned is don't PRETEND and don't have the mind to CHANGE your partner you are not GOD.

In course of this write up I got the intuition to split it to two parts...

Watch out for PART 2 of COURTSHIP...
Your questions and contributions are highly appreciated for deliberations...

AYO STEVE.
President.
CHERISH & PECULIAR...
Its all bout LUV & YOU.
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I appreciate the privilege given to me to speak at this great event where nobles are gathered...
It is my utmost prayer that this vision and other vision bearers shall come to limelight of manifestation so that together we can IMPACT & IMPART LIVES...

Speaking @ the event BUT FROM THE BEGINNING IT WAS NOT SO.
Gen 1:31a (Psalm 104:24; 1 Tim. 4:4; Job 12:13)

TOPIC: RIGHT PATTERN FOR RELATIONSHIP & MARRIAGE.

    The right pattern for relationship and marriage leads us to the path of a HAPPY HOME. Anything short of this is wrong. Speaking from the theme BUT FROM THE BEGINNING IT WAS NOT SO is telling us something had gone wrong with the situation at present.

I will be a bit historical for the purpose of history.

    In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth and He said “Let there be light and everything He created was good. Heaven and Earth exists, Light & Darkness are present, Good/ Evil are available.

With the above analysis we can see that things have gone saga as a result of other involvement in the wrong plan, pattern and style of relationship and marriage.
Do not forget BUT FROM THE BEGINNING IT WAS NOT SO...

How is it suppose to be?
In answering this question we must follow this pattern which will expose the theme and topic.

P.R.A.Y.E.R.S - P.A.L.

1. Plan ahead. - (i.e) 5p’s:
(+) Prior Preparation Prevent Poor Performance/(-) Poor Preparation Produce Poor Performance
2. Revelation/Mission/Vision. - Time Consciousness - Application of Wisdom - Contentment
3. Abstinence from all appearance of evil. - Run from immoralities
4. Your. - Value - Genuinty - Speech - Uniqueness - Moderation
5. Examine/Sensitivity. - Discern and observe appropriately
6. Response to advise. - Do not be misled - Sleep over - Pray through
7. Skillful/Creative/Industrous. - Shun idleness

8. Patience. - Hopeful
9. Accommodating. - Peaceful - Friendly - Control your temperament
10. Leave your past and forge ahead.

Thanks for the audience, reading, writing, listening among others to me.

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LOVE is LIFE...

Take this as today ends:

When LOVE exists LIFE is AVAILABLE...

Let your LOVE spring forth the LIFE therein...

Good Night.
Enjoy your sleep.

- Ayo Steve.

Best Relationship.

The best relationship is that kind of relationship free of SEX...
(to the single)

The best relationship is that kind of relationship full of mutual trust, care, love & understanding...
(to the married)...
- Ayo Steve.