On our LOVE and RELATIONSHIP ISSUE today, the focus is COURTSHIP (I)...
A great lesson learnt and shared on 3rd March 2013 (SUNDAY).
Its paramount we learn from it as well.
Short or Long Courtship:
SHINE YOUR EYES...
Long or short Courtship does not guaranty a safe trip to Marriage.
How sensitive you are matters.
Your alertness plays a vital role in this course...
Parties are to discern things during this stage else they make fun or mockery of the concept...
A month Courtship with 31 days alertness is better than 4 yrs Courtship with or without 2 days sensitivity...
After digesting this write up you can define Courtship and have the knowledge before leaping into it or before you check out of it for those in it now...
I will further explain my write up with an acronym as you know I fall in love with this logic for better digest of readers.
C.O.U.R.T.S.H.I.P.
C- CLEAR.
Be clear. Clear cogent issues that can make you stumble...
O- OPENNESS.
Be open to each other. The issue hidden when open in future can lead to break at last. So why do you hide them in the first instance?...
U- UNDERSTANDING.
You must understand each other to a reasonable level...
R- REASONABLE.
Its necessary to be reasonable with your partner else you expect much or deny the fact that he/she is human. We have our past, but the ability to pass through them pushes us to the bright future...
T- TEACHABLE.
Correction must b available during this period. So take it with all joy...
S- SUBMISSIVE.
Your submissiveness doesn't means stupidity rather shows that you value the relationship in all areas...
H- HELPING.
Strive always to help out your partner. Be fair to each other...
I- INTERESTING.
Make this period interesting to each other not with SEX, ROMANCE, KISSES among others but with nice discussions, expositions, plans for the future, hopes for tomorrow, appreciating each others companion.
P- PEACEFUL.
Be calm, peaceful, gentle, mild. Don't be a harsh, wicked, aggressive partner...
An additional point to the above mentioned is don't PRETEND and don't have the mind to CHANGE your partner you are not GOD.
In course of this write up I got the intuition to split it to two parts...
Watch out for PART 2 of COURTSHIP...
Your questions and contributions are highly appreciated for deliberations...
AYO STEVE.
President.
CHERISH & PECULIAR...
Its all bout LUV & YOU.
+2348064889971; +2348027667460
ayodele.o.stephen@gmail.com
ayodele.o.stephen@facebook.com
For LIVE CHAT connect me on 2go: 1stcherished
A great lesson learnt and shared on 3rd March 2013 (SUNDAY).
Its paramount we learn from it as well.
Short or Long Courtship:
SHINE YOUR EYES...
Long or short Courtship does not guaranty a safe trip to Marriage.
How sensitive you are matters.
Your alertness plays a vital role in this course...
Parties are to discern things during this stage else they make fun or mockery of the concept...
A month Courtship with 31 days alertness is better than 4 yrs Courtship with or without 2 days sensitivity...
After digesting this write up you can define Courtship and have the knowledge before leaping into it or before you check out of it for those in it now...
I will further explain my write up with an acronym as you know I fall in love with this logic for better digest of readers.
C.O.U.R.T.S.H.I.P.
C- CLEAR.
Be clear. Clear cogent issues that can make you stumble...
O- OPENNESS.
Be open to each other. The issue hidden when open in future can lead to break at last. So why do you hide them in the first instance?...
U- UNDERSTANDING.
You must understand each other to a reasonable level...
R- REASONABLE.
Its necessary to be reasonable with your partner else you expect much or deny the fact that he/she is human. We have our past, but the ability to pass through them pushes us to the bright future...
T- TEACHABLE.
Correction must b available during this period. So take it with all joy...
S- SUBMISSIVE.
Your submissiveness doesn't means stupidity rather shows that you value the relationship in all areas...
H- HELPING.
Strive always to help out your partner. Be fair to each other...
I- INTERESTING.
Make this period interesting to each other not with SEX, ROMANCE, KISSES among others but with nice discussions, expositions, plans for the future, hopes for tomorrow, appreciating each others companion.
P- PEACEFUL.
Be calm, peaceful, gentle, mild. Don't be a harsh, wicked, aggressive partner...
An additional point to the above mentioned is don't PRETEND and don't have the mind to CHANGE your partner you are not GOD.
In course of this write up I got the intuition to split it to two parts...
Watch out for PART 2 of COURTSHIP...
Your questions and contributions are highly appreciated for deliberations...
AYO STEVE.
President.
CHERISH & PECULIAR...
Its all bout LUV & YOU.
+2348064889971; +2348027667460
ayodele.o.stephen@gmail.com
ayodele.o.stephen@facebook.com
For LIVE CHAT connect me on 2go: 1stcherished
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